Archives for the Month of February, 2017


Manners / Wellcome Images

Manners / Wellcome Images

An amusing etiquette story from the gym. I was walking down the gym stairs while a guy was going up next to me.

He said, “Do you need help?” I guess my gait was not perfection.

I said, “No.”

Totally fine so far. Then he said,

“Do you need help?” again.

Why again? There was no way he didn’t hear me the first time.

I said, “No!!!!!” He kind of jumped and left.

You can ask disabled people if they need help once.  Asking them more than that implies that they are completely incapable of running their own lives. In fact, I go up and down stairs dozens of times a day, since I live in a 2-story house.

Any other silly disability etiquette stories?

Other manners entries….


Snow-Buntings / Library of Congress

Snow-Buntings / Library of Congress

18 inches of snow are expected in Boston today! 46 centimeters! We were going to make a snowman, but my son rejected that idea. We negotiated a snowpuppy. Woof!


Sweeping / Wellcome Images

Sweeping / Wellcome Images

My occupational therapist says certain of my back muscles are weak. She suggested that I pick up a broom and lift it up and down, for a very long time.

Up and down. Up and down. Highly boring. Thank you for your book recommendations. I listen to recordings on my phone. I just finished The City & the City, which is fab.